The legal processes in which the custody of a child is discussed are quite stressful, for the parents and most of all for the children.

Because sadly, they are in the middle of this whole situation; that in reality, what they would like the most is for their parents to have better communication and thus help them to develop and overcome the trauma of separation. The court always tries to take the parents to a mediation process, it means that it tries to settle in a peaceful way. The purpose of this mediation is to try to resolve this situation for the welfare of the children. If both parents reach a mutual agreement regarding custody of the children, for the children, this whole process will be much more enjoyable. Unfortunately, an agreement between the parties is not always within the family’s possibilities. Many parents believe they know what is best for their children, and they focus on proving their point of view while forgetting about the rights of the other parent or the true best interests of the child. And without realizing that they hurt their own children while focusing on protecting them. To prevent all this from happening, the Judge acts partially; protecting the interests of the children and relying on the facts presented about the case. The Family Court Judge, hand in hand with all the organizations that protect children in California, look out for the interests of children, and grant custody of them to the father who proves to be the most appropriate for their care and teaching. That is why Vincent E. Neuman and his associates are here to listen to you to understand the situation in which you are involved.

The first thing to keep in mind is that when requesting custody of the children you are based on their interests and not yours. For child custody to be awarded to you, you must show that you are truly the best person to take care of them. Proving that you are a responsible parent and that you do not neglect your children is not complicated at all. If you are involved in the development of the child, it will be easy for you to take evidence to support your statement. You must have evidence such as: Photos that show that the refrigerator is full of food; photos of entertainment (cinema, chuck-e-cheese, park, sport, beach or other activities), school, photos of events where you are actively involved in school, letters showing that you are taking them to the doctor, letters of recommendation from your work, letters from people who know you and know that you are fully involved in the development of your children, classes like Our Children First, Parenting classes (this class will teach you to understand the whole custody process) I must learn to communicate with the father or mother of my children, regardless of the situation or resentment, hatred, resentment, or whatever situation has occurred in the past such as cheating, hitting, etc. That at this point the most important thing is that they work together for the well-being of the children.